As the first speakers were kicking off the event in Latvia the next two (in real life they were three) speakers are creating more clarity on the topics based on human connection, how to talk to people, procrastination, and how to stopping adding on that list, make it come down to a certain amount of time, get rid of it, and do it all in 1 day
Mathieu Jang & Julian Sherman
The million-dollar day to stop procrastinating
When you want to stop procrastinating, it's essential to hold on to your word, keep your commitments, and avoid making excuses. Put yourself in uncomfortable situations, because those situations challenge you to take action, to face something, an anxiety, and by going through that, you'll grow as a person.
It's all about taking action and sending the message to the universe that you're ready for change, that you're ready for growth, and that you're ready to transform your life from where you are right now.
Get clear on all of the things that you were procrastinating based on different sides that build up your life: personal development, cleaning, organizing, social contacts, you name it. Everything that you have been putting on the long road, get clear on it, write it down, and count how much time you're already procrastinating it. Count all those years up with each other and see how much time you can strip off from your procrastination list by getting rid of them in one day: Your Million Dollar day.
So take your list, set a certain day aside for it, on which you get rid of all of the things that you were procrastinating for so long.
Josh Chatham
Mastering Human Connection
How you learn in life all starts with connection. If you keep hiding yourself, your thoughts, your story, no one will ever hear from you, learn from your experiences as vice versa. Get serious about what you're sharing of your life. Change your identity, step into the role of the person you want to become, start believing in yourself, in what you have to share, and the value you may give to others, and change your life as well as that of so many others.
How to get the best out of a conversation with someone else starts with asking the right questions. Make the conversations one to connect with other people, not to talk about you, but to really put your mind and interest in the other person, so they'll feel heard and worthy.
Everyone you talk to is unique, so make them feel seen, special, respected, and as the person they are. Not as someone else. And with that, it's important that if you start a conversation, you're confident in yourself, that you can lead a conversation, be the guiding person in it, and feel good enough to say to yourself:
In years, I'm going to be a master in connection, and change people's lives
As an entrepreneur and a business owner, you'd love to lead the conversation in a certain way, to guide people towards something: a webinar, a training, or buying something from you. But if you force yourself to guide the talk only by hoping that the outcome will be one of those things, others will definitely feel that and not respond. The clue in here is to talk and have that conversation by 'not needing, but creating'. Know that you're the leader in here, you're the business owner, the one who's changing others' lives, but make others truly feel seen instead of someone who has to go through a structure towards the end goal you're having in mind. Invite others into a conversation, make them feel like they need a certain experience, a certain outcome, get them with you instead of standing ahead of them, and get them on the journey at your side, make them experience that momentum, and invite them to feel that too.
Of course, it's not up to you to try to help everyone. It's about that specific group: your niche. Those people are your mission. It's all about them; it's your goal to help them, to create the change for them, and be that example. Because you're ahead of them, you're the leader, you're here, and you're changing your life right now.
Get to know yourself even more and more, stay pure, open, thinking about things that are ahead of you, open to share with others, and to truly dive deeper into what mission it is that you want to share. What do you feel called to pursue?
And yes, maybe connection, talking to people, especially the ones who you feel not the most comfortable around, to have contact with, makes you feel scared of receiving negative feedback, prejudice or rejection. But, ask yourself: 'What's the worst that can happen?' Maybe someone says 'no', maybe someone ghosts you, or gives you some negative talk. Does the world stop turning? Does it really say something about you or more about them and the point where they are in their lives?
The lonely mind in the busy city yearns for connection because it thinks human-to-human connection is the point of everything
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