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In the beginning, from me starting my social media page and especially my business page and content, I received no comments or likes, which made me feel like I failed, I was a fool, and I would never skyrocket my journey and reach the people I want to reach. I started with ads, but in the beginning I really struggled with finding my avatar, who the audience I wanted to target was, and by not being sure about this, I just tested some audiences, with men, which caused me an inbox full of strangers and elderly men who were only searching for a girl to play with.
I was scared as hell, shocked, and didn't know what to do in the first place. I started from scratch again and really asked myself what I would like to see, what I would benefit from, and what kind of person I want to become.
It took some time, but in the end, I really found myself, who I want to become, and what kind of people I want in my team, and help them to build their own authentic business too.
However, the posts I shared, the reels I launched, were not seen in my eyes. Nearly someone left a comment, liked my post, or got into my DM's when I put in my text that they should send me a certain kind of word to learn some more.
It drained me and made me question myself about whether I could really do this.
Till the day came, I got a message in my inbox from a lovely girl who reached out to me and told me that by sharing what I do daily to grow my business, made her curious to learn more.
No, it's not the beginning of a run on people in my inbox. However, that simple message from this girl, and the fact that she told me she knew half my life, convinced me that there truly are people watching me and following what I do.
This has been mentioned several times by people in the community, but up to this point, I couldn't really grasp or believe it to be true. I guess I'm still kinda insecure about myself somewhere, while I've been growing in confidence a lot. Sometimes I want to have some proof that I really am able to achieve my goals, but it takes a lot of patience, consistency, and really focusing on who I am, what I want to do, where I want to go, and sharing my story with the world.
The right people will find me, come into my stories, and follow my path.
And by reaching out to the ones who do follow me, the ones who do see my stories every day, I really got clear on their vision and what they see when they see me. Quite often, they feel inspired, fun, enthusiastic, supported, and amused. It's lovely to dive deeper and really get into a conversation with someone whom you haven't seen or a family member whom you thought didn't care. They do care, and they follow you, because there is something about you they like. And that 'something' is you and only you yourself from the heart.
I noticed that when I was vulnerable, open, honest, and kind, more people were watching me than when I shared things that were not aligned with me.
However, know that not everyone is made for the same business, not everyone needs support in the way you give it, and not everyone will be your best friend. That's okay, totally fine, and you may accept that the world is made to be lived by all different kinds of people with different kinds of interests, values, goals, and thoughts. It's the beauty of this beautiful system as well, and the fact that you show up as who you are authentically makes the right people feel seen, heard, and wanna reach out to you, because you tell their story.
You'll never know who's watching you, for how long, and some people just need more time to feel confident, share their voice, or see that there's more potential in life, and that you, by showing up consistently, and making a lot of changes, are proof of what is all possible.
When no one is watching, live as if someone is
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