Sometimes I feel uncertainty about myself, about the way I show up, my skills, and my character. I doubt and question myself if I can really make it to achieve my goals, to live a life that really includes everything I have in mind, being worthy, and share valuable experiences and lessons with others.
I'm a coach by heart, but when I look in the online space, on social media, or just on YouTube when I want to learn or see something, ads pass by about trading, online opportunities, Virtual Assistants, Webdesigners, Network Marketing platforms, etc...
Why should someone in our massive world wanna work with me?
Why should one or a couple of people click on my ad?
What is the difference between me compared to all of these other people who share what they do?
And what is making me successful with the value I share?
You may already feel it coming: the reason is You. Because in a world where opportunities are screaming, all coaches, all network marketers know how they can build momentum, reach their goals, and deep down we all know that combined with helping others, and showing them the way, we benefit ourselves, our lives, and the outcome of what we once started. Yes, we have one life to live, and we are all worthy of getting the results we want, but it won't work if we feel uncertain by the stories of everyone around us, by all the other opportunities where we question ourselves why ours is better.
In fact, we are not better; not everybody in the outer world wears the same glasses, has the same goals or pain points as us. And that's fine. Even if we feel that we may help a specific person, not everyone has the same feelings about life and the value that's in it. And that's not easy, because sometimes you want others so badly to see it, to look at the bigger picture, that you want to shake them, but it's stronger to let go of that person and start to focus on the people that do resonate with what you share.
Let me repeat that piece: with what YOU share, not someone else. And that's why you stand out for that specific type of people.
And I get it, it's so hard not to compare yourself to someone else. The grass always seems greener on the other side of the fence, but that's not true. What you see is not always what you get, and the momentum, the positivity, the incredible moments, and beautiful sights are just a part of the story of someone else. The downsides, the dark spaces, the sad moments, and the tears are not always shown.
It's okay, because we all deserve space for ourselves, for our emotions, just to be who we are without everybody's eyes on us. However, in that moment we may realize that we are not the only one who feels like that. We may be aware of the fact that if we feel sad or disappointed from time to time, that's also the case for somebody else. If we think about comparing and talking about ourselves negatively, know that you're not the only one. It's something human, a character trait we all have within ourselves, but the strength is in the awareness of being okay with it, sit with that feeling, let that emotion flow, and be blown away.
Make sure that if you feel like comparing, you can let it go, think about it in a way of seeing others' results, life, but knowing that you don't see all of it, and that comparing will make you compare your life, your whole life, to a part of that of someone else. You compare not to the full picture, so it's irrelevant to do so.
You are unique, you have all emotions within you, just like everybody else out there; you can achieve everything that you want, and if you're open to seeing the potential you have within you, that's the power you need to build your life upon.
Stop complaining about the things you don't have, and someone else does. You see it through a lens of what others want you to know from them, but it's not the full picture. Keep that in mind, focus on your life, your values, your goals, and start shining your light!
You weren't made to fit in. You were born to stand out
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